Our method
From Survival to Self™
A framework for understanding your patterns and exploring a different way forward. The strategies that helped you survive may not be the ones you need now.
- NoticeRecognise the patterns you return to.
- UnderstandExplore where those patterns may have come from.
- RegulatePay attention to your responses and ways to manage them.
- ReconnectMake space for your needs, values and identity.
- ReclaimConsider the boundaries and choices that matter to you.
- RebuildPractise different ways of responding in everyday life.
- ThriveReview what supports you and how you want to move forward.
A framework, not a fixed path
The stages give structure to reflection. Your experiences and needs guide the work, and change rarely follows a straight line.
You might spend longer on one stage, return to an earlier one or move between them. That is part of the process.
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